Gefilter Fish

While the title is meant to amuse, the content is meant to contribute.  We humans have filters --think colored glasses, that truly control what it is we see and what we don’t see in life --and our relationships.  Typically, these filters are not 100% transparent to us, and we believe that what we see is all there is to see.  Unfortunately this isn’t true and impacts are relationships remendously.

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Writing A Love Letter Every Day

Looking for ways to enhance your Gratitude Practice? I invite you to join me. I will be writing a Love Letter a Day in 2025. The purpose of this practice is to bring more love and joy into life and to remind me that I can always find something to be grateful for — even on the darkest days.

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Heartbroken

How many times has this happened in your conversations?  You say something and the other person gets upset.  Your response is one of two:  What did I do or say that caused this distress? (What’s wrong with me?) or; Why are they upset –being too sensitive? (What’s wrong with them?)  Looking for someone to blame for the distress.  Opting out of fault finding is essential for resolving painful conflict.

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